One out of every five women will suffer from postpartum depression after
the arrival of a new baby (by birth or adoption). It can be their first,
second or sixth baby and the depression may arrive in a few days or several
months later.
These women feel a range of emotions from numbness and sadness
to irritability, confusion and anxiety. Frightening fantasies, panic attacks,
overwhelming shame and feelings of guilt are also components. These feelings
do not go away and are often accompanied by tearfulness, despondency, feelings
of inadequacy and an inability to cope.
Postpartum depression is not a bad mood, nor is it the "Baby Blues", that
transitory tearfulness that is experienced by many women a few days after
birth. Postpartum depression is profound and extremely distressing to both
the woman and her family.
This excellent book
explores the symptoms and offers explanations for the "why". There is
no quick fix for an experience with causes as multidimensional as postpartum depression, but understanding the contributing factors does point
the way to recovery.
Produced by the Pacific
Post Partum Support Society, this book is based on fifteen years of counselling
thousands of women through this experience.
As stated in the foreword
by Sue Penfold, MB, FRCP(C), "Instead of leaning on a medical or psychiatric
formulation, thus putting the women in a sick role, this book empowers
the depressed woman and helps her to engineer her recovery. Instead of
thinking that she is inadequate, neurotic, or even crazy, she gains understanding
of her symptoms and is given strategies to begin to alleviate them. She
learns to take time and space for herself, focus on her own needs, assert
herself within the family and forge bonds with other women."
The strategies for recovery are time and experience-tested, practical and
do-able. They work.
Other excellent chapters cover the effects of commonly-prescribed medications,
"Getting Help from the Professional Helpers", "Relationships",
"The Motherhood Myth" and "Resources".
The Resources chapter provides an excellent list of phone
numbers and addresses for British Columbia agencies and organizations
that can help.
Postpartum Depression and Anxiety is available on loan
to Council members from the BC Council for the Family Resource Center.
It is available for purchase from the Pacific Post Partum Support Society,
Suite 104 - 1416 Commercial Drive, Vancouver BC V5L 3X9. Telephone (604)
255-7999.